Democracy at the Crossroads

images_church_stateIt is utterly shocking to learn that women could be banned from wearing trousers in Sudan. In Egypt, women resort to the use of fake hymen to “restore” their virginity before marriage so their future husbands don’t divorce them. The re-virgination is also a way to prevent their very own family from embarrassment and avoid the dreaded and feared “honor killing” on them. The Egyptian government wants to ban the product and punish those who import and sell them to the public. We Pinoys cringe at the thought of such restrictive and oppressive practices of other cultures and pride ourselves with the freedoms we enjoy in our country. Yet for a long time we harmed ourselves the opposite way, by our government’s inaction and lack of political will to confront the most serious threat to our country today, the problem of overpopulation and its tragic consequence of poverty. At last, after more than a decade of debate, the RH bill is finally put to law. There is reason to rejoice. The approval of the RH bill in both legislative houses is an epiphany, a profound pronouncement to the world that Pinoys live in the present and not the medieval times. The approval is well timed to complement the country’s plan towards economic prosperity. Today, Pinas’ economic numbers are solid and the country is now an acknowledged emerging “Tiger Cub” economy of Asia poised to break out in the next 3 decades as the 16th largest economy in the world. The government needs to create a long term plan to ensure that the momentum gained is maintained and sustained in the long haul.


church_stateThere is no doubt that a large population creates a strong consumption economy but it is only strong when such population collectively contribute to “creating” the economy and not becoming a wholesale encumbrance, a liability to the government. Creating human beings isn’t the goal. Rather, creating human beings that won’t wallow in abject poverty and sub-human conditions should be the goal. A country’s exploding population that outruns economic growth exacerbates poverty. At some point it has to slow down, not totally stop and prudent population control strategy is the right approach. The RH bill will provide the much needed sex education to prevent teen pregnancy and help parents right size their families, to that which they can financially support. This kind of strategy is a necessary ingredient to any country’s social program, that is if such country believes that it no longer exists in the medieval times. It took 14 years for the bill to get passed. In the the end the state was able to sail through turbulent waters – the church’s incessant meddling and fear mongering. The reason for the separation of church and state in the constitution is express and unambiguous – to guarantee and maintain the secularity of government in the context of democracy.ย  In short, the law of the land not the law of religion is in force to rule the country. Unless we are prepared to run democracy with its core principles intact, we better return it to the Americans.


RHThe RH bill created a passionate debate amongst Pinoys where the pro and con supporters take a stab at the issue whenever they can, sometimes in a humourous, satirical fashion. I watched Ann Curtis diss Andy Eigenmann who in the movie A Secret Affair played the role of the slutty woman who was desperately trying to snatch lover Derek Ramsey from her – “ I wish the RH bill was approved long time ago so a slut like you could have been prevented to come into this world “. It sounded a tad gaudy and clumsy but hey, we hear the point ๐Ÿ˜‰ Of course who could have missed that Iskul Bukol moment in the Senate when Sen. Sotto, a staunch opponent of the bill, asked what he thought about contraceptives for men said “ Is there such a thing ? If so then it’s the women’s turn to protest about it “ ๐Ÿ˜‰ I have never been a fan of Sen. Miriam Defensor. This pugnacious and scrappy lawmaker, an outspoken supporter of the RH bill, is an acquired taste for most people but I thought she put the kibosh on the accusation of heresy when she compared herself to Nicolaus Copernicus, the 16th century astronomer whose theory that the earth revolved around the sun, not the other way around as believed by the Catholic church was condemned as heretical. Science proclaimed Copernicus’ discovery to be true, years after he posited his theory. Copernicus body was reburied in 2010 and proclaimed a hero 500 years after lying in an unmarked grave. He was never given a Christian burial because the church denounced his work until the day he died. You can trust I am with you on this one Miriam ๐Ÿ˜‰ And who could forget Cong. Manny Pacquiao, who said that the 2 minute slumber he experienced from that Hulk Hogan punch courtesy of Marquez made him appreciate the sanctity of life even more, hence his NO vote for the bill. He obviously forgot the Incredible Hulk punch he delivered on Ricky Hatton’s head in 2009. It laid the poor guy motionless on the mat for 4 minutes. ๐Ÿ˜


loserIn the aftermath of the bill’s approval, it is not uncommon for people to be disappointed when the result isn’t what they expected. But that’s the essence of democracy lest we forget – the rule of the majority takes precedence. The CBCP is extremely upset with the result. How dare the flock lend a deaf ear to its leaders ?

“I never thought of losing, but now that it’ s happened, the only thing is to do it right. That’s my obligation to all the people who believe in me. We all have to take defeats in life”.ย Muhammad Ali

Perhaps the bishops and cardinals must ask themselves the question – why have we failed ? What did we do wrong ? The result is crystal clear. It is not Pnoy nor the legislators. The church has clearly failed to connect with its people. In retrospect, the church, along with its anti RH bill supporters trumped their chance to win with their lame, fear mongering tactic of labeling contraceptives as abortifacients. In a way, they shot themselves in the foot with such idiocy. This scare tactic was meant to garner support from the bottom of the social ladder, the impoverished and the most ignorant among us. Contraceptives are already legal and available at the pharmacies to those who can afford a doctor’s prescription. When the government proposes to make contraceptives available to the poorย – freeย to those who cannot afford, all of a sudden they’re abortifacients ! Since when ? If they are dead serious about their abortifacient pitch, why not lobby to take these pills out of the drug store shelves NOW ?

The CBCP’s call for civil disobedience and the exhortation to Catholic voters to defeat the pro RH politicians in this coming election is a clear violation of its statement of faith, a throwback to its mission as mediator and pacifier of men and a clear insult to the democratic processes and principles it must uphold, respect and promote. It is tragic that the church has engaged in the game of dirty politics to compensate for its shortcomings. It has failed to understand that genuine faith has to come from the heart – not coercion. Sadly is has behaved like the church of the days of the Inquisition, intent to destroy and burn those who contradict its views. It has refused to accept defeat in a democratic exercise blaming the heretics for the failure and not itself. Poor loser is such a heavy word. There is dignity in defeat. My wife’s response to the RH bill was bluntly simple – ” they could enact any law they want but the decision still rests with the woman, right ?

Archbishop Tagle said it best :

“It is tragic and unfortunate but we do not take it as a defeat of truth for the truth shall prevail. We call on all Filipinos to work towards healing, and journey together humbly and justly as children of God.

Now that’s the mark of a truly enlightened leader. I wish there are more church leaders of his mold.

14 Responses

  1. This is an emotional issue to a lot of people. I think a woman has the right to protect her body. If she feels guilty then she will not take the plunge. As long as no one is forced to do against her/his will I am for it.

    btw, Happy New Year to you BW.

    • That’s the thinking that most people have surrounding the issue. It always depends on the person’s personal conviction.

      Happy new year to you too..

  2. While the condom/birth control hypocrites demand society (which includes the Catholic church and religious people) stay away from their bedroom, they at the same time demand government pay for their birth control and โ€œensure pleasurable sex for womenโ€.

    • the bill is a national strategy for family planning and the only ones who could get them for free are the can’t afford, the impoverished families. It is already legal and available today to those who can afford. By definition sex is always pleasurable isn’t it ๐Ÿ˜‰

  3. Ignorance is the biggest problem of the poor and uneducated and that is the reason why they reproduce like rabbits. It not a guarantee that all will come to listen to a lecture. Some of them will listen and some will not, like in India.

    • contrary to what most people think, sex education does work and helps prevent teen pregnancy and i’m not talking contraception here. It does clear up the innocence as well as myths that culture/ word of mouth teaches wrongly on what causes a woman to get pregnant.

  4. I remembered my reply few years ago about a “virginity” issue which ired a reply from some kenyan(?) purist.

    Anyways, the RH issue showed the best and worst in all of us. A lot of hypocrites too (two of them you mentioned above). But I do like Tagle too, it now time to heal.

    • yep. That’s typical macho medieval thinking isn’t it ? Men go around sowing his oats with wild abandon and yet expecting to marry a virgin when he decides to marry. Dysfunctional thinking indeed.

      Take the loss like a man is the name of the game. No room for crybabies here. It will heal in due time – that’s for sure.

  5. though it’s a tad late, wanted to greet you a Happy New Year! ๐Ÿ˜€

    we have yet to see what the newly approved RH Bill will give us. there are lots of work to do when it comes to ‘trimming down’ the population of our motherland.

    sad that there are more liabilities than assets. what to do? what to do? instead of arguments that do not end, i think these people tasked for the welfare of the people and the country have to think of ways to change the mindset of most Filipinos.

    • same to you Bing ๐Ÿ™‚

      I think the recent RH bill experience shows that Pinoys know what they want and couldn’t be goaded into blind allegiance. That’s the essence of democracy. I doubt if the bill would have gotten anywhere with a president like GMA who openly said in an interview with CNN that she considered the Philippines as an extension of the dominion of the Vatican ๐Ÿ˜ฆ . THat’s a dishonor to the Pinoy nation and a total disrespect of its sovereignity.

  6. hello BW!

    medyo inactive na tayo pareho sa blogging! ๐Ÿ™‚

    I have many things to say about the church.

    And I’m interested to hear what you’ll say about the pope’s resignation.

    • Hi Jeff. Got caught up in a whirlwind of projects at work. I’m due for another trip soon. But will be posting soon.

      Pope Benedict is probably the intellectually sharpest pope in the modern era, someone who knows his theology. The resignation is a suprise… I was waiting for Enrile to retire first ๐Ÿ˜‰ I think there is more to Benedict’s resignation than his decaying body. Might have been the internal politics within the Vatican leadership.

  7. there’s big business here too on something called landscaping in addition to those fake virginity ๐Ÿ˜›

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